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Debt Often Ruins Marriages

It’s no secret that many Marriages end because of financial conflict.  If your Marriage is troubled, you can bet that your finances may need some help in critical areas as well.  If your love life  isn’t beaming with adoration for your Partner, it may be because of their Debt or the other way around.

There are some real-world ways to speak to the one you love about finances.  Today we’ll share some pretty practical tips to care for your Credit before during and after your Divorce or Break-up.  If you find these three tips simple enough, that’s because they are simple.

Three Step’s To Care For Your Credit Before, During  Or After a Divorce

1. Be Honest.

Please be honest with your spouse about your debt and theirs?  Honesty will save you a lot of financial headaches and embarrassment in the long run.

2. Be Urgent.

Sometimes there is no bigger mistake than believing that your Spouse or Partner will change their spending or credit habits, without you urging them to do so.  Don’t allow yourself to float around a whirlwind of debt pretending like everything is OK financially – when it’s not.

You don’t always have to bring the drama.  But please don’t be subtle about your credit and or debt issues in your relationship?  Tell your partner or spouse directly what your financial concerns are.  Don’t hide Debt Collection Notices from your spouse or partner, they can help you keep them at bay.   Be clear, but not hostile, when you find yourself unsettled or upset your Credit and or Debt Issues.

3. Be Resolved.

Especially when the Sea of  Love gets extra rocky and you start to worry about finances, credit and debt.  Let your spouse (or Partner) know what you intend to do about your credit and debt issues.  Make sure you’re on the same financial survival plan.  Try to come to a written resolve together.

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If your spouse or partner won’t do anything about their fair share of  debt – then you may have to act on your own. I’ve seen many Love Boats sink slowly into a  Sea of debt.  One Partner usually pulls the other down, where they both end up drowning in debt.

To help you keep your head above water,  Debt Warriors have produced the Ultimate Debt Settlement Video Courses .

Our Credit and Debt Management Video Courses help you prevent credit and debt drama from ruining your marriage.  They also effectively teach you how to reconcile the drama on your Credit Report’s once you’re ready to move on with your life, after a divorce or breakup.

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What do you do when the one you said “I do” to says “I don’t” – anymore?
1. Take the person seriously and be prepaired. Get all of your bills organized. If you are a co-signer on any loan or line of credit, discuss how that will be taken care of. You may have to argue about your debt, but it’s best to get it out and in the open before you find yourself responding to a Petition for dissolution of marriage in court.

2. Demand that all communication be in writing. Divorce, despite good intentions usually ends up being emotional and mental tourture. Speaking on the phone or in person with your ex is not recommended. Please get all divorce communication in writing?

3. Don’t try to be the nice person regarding money. If you’re spouse or partner wants to leave you (or suggest as that they might) or you are concerned about them leaving – don’t lend them any money. Don’t co-sign for a loan and don’t sign anymore leases with them. This person has already indicated their intent to desert you. Don’t give your ex anything.
The sad fact is that once a person decides on a divorce, you are on your own and you have to start acting like it.

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Don’t Let Debt Defeat you!

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What do you do when the one you said “I do” to says “I don’t” – anymore?
1. Take the person seriously and be prepaired. Get all of your bills organized. If you are a co-signer on any loan or line of credit, discuss how that will be taken care of. You may have to argue about your debt, but it’s best to get it out and in the open before you find yourself responding to a Petition for dissolution of marriage in court.

2. Demand that all communication be in writing. Divorce, despite good intentions usually ends up being emotional and mental tourture. Speaking on the phone or in person with your ex is not recommended. Please get all divorce communication in writing?

3. Don’t try to be the nice person regarding money. If you’re spouse or partner wants to leave you (or suggest as that they might) or you are concerned about them leaving – don’t lend them any money. Don’t co-sign for a loan and don’t sign anymore leases with them. This person has already indicated their intent to desert you. Don’t give your ex anything.
The sad fact is that once a person decides on a divorce, you are on your own and you have to start acting like it.

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Don’t Let Debt Defeat you!

Log onto http://www.debtwarriors.com/